Wanting your boyfriend back knowing that you can't have him can make things ever so frustrating. Impatience is one of the worst things to demonstrate after a breakup. But, there are still so many women who display impatience, let their initial emotions get the best of them, and then ultimately end up making all of the wrong choices. This is what leads most couples to not being able to get back together. If the wrong choices are made to get your boyfriend back, and he gives you another chance, it is not likely to last.
One of the worst of the bad choices women make to get their boyfriend back is using sex as a means of winning their heart. In actually, sex doesn't win anyone's heart. What it does is change the way a person sees you. Men do not think very highly of women who use sex as a way to get them back into their lives. Sometimes, they do not think anything of it at all.
The reason for this is that a lot of men view women as objects of physical desire, particularly when they do not care about them. It takes a real woman with wits and a real heart filled with warmth, patience, and forgiveness to get her boyfriend back. The last thing you need to do is have sex with him because not only will that allow him to take advantage of you physically, but emotionally.
There is a probable chance that by allowing him to sustain this sort of physical contact with you, that you are going to end up feeling used, and even resentful of him. What are you going to do when you don't get your boyfriend back after a few months of still being intimately involved with him? Are you going to assume that he is eventually going to come back around? Of course, not because he is having too much fun! It's a guy's dream to have the opportunity to sleep with you, and basically anyone else he wants, especially if there are no emotions involved. We all know how much men do not like to be emotionally tied down.
You need to do your best to get his emotions involved by not talking to him. Getting your boyfriend back is a very simple process that involves patience and careful attention. It's better not to rush things once your relationship has fallen apart. If you want to maintain your feelings for him, it's best that you not let him take advantage you.
Ignoring him once he has dumped you will evoke a strong emotional response in him. He is going to start feeling confused at first. If he tries to fight his feelings, they will only become worse. You need to let him stew in his sea of confusing thoughts. Make sure to let this go on for a while. Allow him to hear about you being at certain clubs, restaurants, etc. with other people. Make efforts to run into his friends when you are out. Do all of this without contacting him. He'll become so curious about you that he won't be able to stand it!
Eventually, you will get your boyfriend back by doing this. Just remember not to use sex because it never works. You'll be the one who gets hurt if you choose to make the wrong decision, and then there will never be another "you and him" again.
